Category: Blogs
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The Paradox of Us
Currently, I’m sitting at my desk in a position I hold as a house manager, overseeing staff who care for three “intellectually disabled” white women. I’m in the middle of reading this book called Caste by Isabel Wilkerson, and it has fueled some feelings that I can’t seem to ignore. Right now, we are amidst…
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The Ghost of Who I Was
I was born a lover girl to the core. I had a love for people, animals, and nature so strongly I thought I could embody it and transform anything and anyone I was in close proximity to. Maybe I watched too many movies about romance, healthy friendships, strong communities with “good people,” and “typical” family…
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Beyond the Illusion
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about success—what it truly means for me, especially in today’s world. Should I keep chasing the dream of becoming a millionaire through content creation, allowing my creativity to take center stage? Should I stay locked in, refining my craft, perfecting my message, and reaching the people who are waiting…
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Redefining Love
I often find myself questioning whether I’ve ever truly known love—or the value of what I bring to intimate relationships. As I experience different forms of intimacy—with partners, friends, and even family—I see how deeply personal and varied love’s definitions can be. These perceptions, I realize, are shaped by what we’ve observed growing up, just…
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Finding Strength in Vulnerability
I’ve always had a naturally expressive personality, able to articulate my thoughts and feelings with ease, especially in spaces where I felt safe. But over time, I encountered situations where the people closest to me used my openness against me. These experiences made me question the value of sharing my deepest thoughts and emotions, leaving…